Monday, March 29, 2010

Postings on FACEBOOK:

Kofi Fosu Forson most women play victim and are hounded by men. that was post 90's strain. traditionally women were elegantly pursued by men in the 20's to 40's allure. 50's rock and roll beset the nature of woman as liberated this carried over into the spiritually sexual 60's. 70's disco was hedonistic. 80's art culture and sex brought closure...

Kofi Fosu Forson
what women are now is a wild breed born into circumstance of evolution. most live in regret. some celebrate this post feminist redemption but to a fault all women wonder what if and what could have been...

Biljana Ackovski
You're totally right, I want to go back to the 40's :)))

Kofi Fosu Forson
Pure elegance, charm and class...we need more class...

Biljana Ackovski
Exactly, and a touch of mystery, the feeling that the "object" of love is unattainable, nowadays women are commodities :)

Kofi Fosu Forson
"object of love is unattainable" yes yes yes...

Kofi Fosu Forson
woman as commodity is a thing of power found in politicians, CEOs and gangsters...much of this has trickled down to the common man...

Biljana Ackovski
We have been duped into thinking that we are now free to pick and choose, wrong, women are now literally fighting over men whereas men have become bored with all the accessible women... The old rule should still apply, plunging neckline, cover up your legs or vice versa)))

Kofi Fosu Forson
what indeed is the fascination with boots I never quite understood although perhaps I think of that as a fetish symbol...hmm

Biljana Ackovski
I wasn't thinking boots but yes, fetish it is, especially nowadays...

Kofi Fosu Forson
Love is an articulation it's more than an expression. It's of my thinking that men have women right where they want them.

Biljana Ackovski
Totally agree, and women are I won't say what yet again...

Kofi Fosu Forson
Backwoods erotica and underground pornography were sold on the black market...well now it's translatable on the worldwide internet...

Biljana Ackovski
Now it's part of mass culture, totally acceptable, MTV, the catwalk, high street fashion, everywhere...

Kofi Fosu Forson
I think we struggle with intimacy... it makes us uncomfortable. social networks like FB and MYSP provide us with an exterior that is less human more virtual therefore making us less vulnerable.

Biljana Ackovski
True. Also, at times it seems as though men and women are living parallel lives...

Kofi Fosu Forson
I like sitting with guys at a bar and talking bout women.

Biljana Ackovski
See, that's exactly what I mean, while women sit with women, plotting how to "snare" the next guy, even if he is a total idiot... Whatever happened to partnerships? Euro girls are all very different :)))

Kofi Fosu Forson
The issue here is mating or as Bret Easton Ellis called it The Rules of Attraction. The rock and roll college dormitory behavior permeated the language of association between men and women, frat humor, locker room humor etcetera... that hasn't left us. I find some Euro girls still to be elegant and brilliant but that's just a supposition since don't live in Europe. What do you think of American girls...


Kofi Fosu Forson
I personally think American women are what fundamentally the international world revolves around.

Kofi Fosu Forson
America has it's history and cannot be denied that. The backlash when GWB become president was unfounded. I personally don't think we need OBAMA to rediscover whatever dignity America had. America is a proud country. It's women are blessed and beautiful. I just prefer sitting with a Euro girl drinking red wine and having a conversation about love for hours...haha

Biljana Ackovski
How right you are! Now team that up with the porn industry which seems to rule the world, together with the arms and pharmaceutical industry and see where that leaves us...
I agree with you about American women, although I have a few American friends who are totally different, they're all about new age spirituality, healing etc. I think it has a lot to do with generations as well, depends what role models you had when you were growing up. What role models do girls today have? You have to dig deep to find anything meaningful...


Kofi Fosu Forson
Well yeah this whole thing is about generational warfare.. men and women are dieing getting older and older and like vampires they need to suck the blood of the young. The idea of role models is pointless in this day and age. I honestly feel we are challenged and stimulated enough as a world of consciences and people to muster and savor a life for our selves. A strong family background always helps but in truth we are defenseless in the outside world...caution first, conscience second but after that anything can happen.


Biljana Ackovski
True, floating with no idea where we will end up, old values are now pointless. Sometimes I feel we are at the end of this civilization, have no idea what will ensue...

Kofi Fosu Forson
Technology somehow upholds that sense of loss we feel. what I find brilliant about these modern times is inner turmoil and stress we all experience it but how do we channel it. I find that to be personal with each person. I find that intellect and sex builds a (wo)man and not gamesmanship and control. we are a divisive society in terms of class, race and culture. And I will say it again that love is more than expressed it is articulated. You save yourself a person at a time we help build a world. Thank You Biljana...it's been a pleasure... :)


Biljana Ackovski
Likewise, I thoroughly enjoyed our chat as well :)))

Kofi Fosu Forson
Extremely meaningful and necessary... hope to talk again soon...:)))

Biljana Ackovski
You are a true gentleman Kofi :)

Kofi Fosu Forson
haha...thank you...I blush haha...I have a great father. my mother's brothers are geniuses and I live in New York..The whole world is here Biljana...The whole world is here...you are so kind...thanks again :)))